Your wedding ceremony, though a relatively brief part of the overall day, is its heart. Regardless of whether you are having a very formal religious ceremony, or a simple civil vow exchange, this is when the two of you “officially” begin your lives together. Among the decisions you’ll make: who will officiate? What vows will you exchange? Will your ceremony be in a church or other house of worship, or at another venue? What music, if any, will you have? Will you have a photographer and/or videographer—and what boundaries will you put on them? Read on for ideas about how to create a meaningful wedding ceremony to suit your style.